Hi,

I know very little about electronics. I am a software programmer with a many skipped electronic courses. I always was like this, when I don't know something start asking many and stupid questions and also start reading. I will always try to stay away from mains.
After reading and try to educate myself I understand now you connect the switch on the hot side (+) of the relay. I also read about how to connect my "fancy" button. Long story short I came up with this crude diagram. Have a look and tell me if this will work, please.

Many thanks
Gabi
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