After some fast brainstorm i decided on the CNC4PC breakoutboard 23 coupled with solid state relay board. This board seems more perfect for me:

1.I have my spindle control board from him and the support was great
2. All IC are mounted for easy removal without soldering / this is a big deal, i have repaired breakout boards in the past /
3. All necessary functions and really no extra ones that i dont need and would pay for choosing other boards
4. Better priced than the PMDX 126. When i started adding the spindle control/ not integrated/ ,relays, inputs, outputs, cables and so, the price jumped a lot
5. Some extra jumpers and functions i like
6. Straight out from the box 2 ports BOB with most possible inputs and outputs

Soon will start showing you packets

Thanks again to Dean/ JazzCNC/, now i know quite more than yesterday

Tomorrow will redraw the design for the ball screws.