Hi Clive here are 2 pictures the second one being the ugs is the one i use the most unless you can think of a better one, anyway i thank you for your patient but please if you get to a point where youve had enough or you cant do any more please let me know i do understand just how problematic some of these things can be.
Best regards. ColinClick image for larger version. 

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